Locktober Explained: Meaning, Rules, Offers and the Submissive Service Lifestyle

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What Is Locktober?

Locktober is a practise that involves BDSM practise and dominant relationship with a Mistress in the month of October. The participant has to wear a device or some restriction is imposed by The Mistress related to sexual activity, for example wearing a chastity cage, as the Mistress has the Key. It begins on October 1 and ends on October 31. It started in mid 2010s and spread like wild fire in online spaces like reddit and tumblr, widely practised by those interested in femdom. Locktober is a community created challenge rather than an official event.

Chastity and the Lock

Chastity play involves agreeing to restriction on sexual activity. The Dominant partner holds the key to unlock the cage. The Lock is a symbol of commitment, restrain and power exchange. It is a responsibility given and upon completion, person is rewarded by the mistress. One can also participate in Locktober without wearing any device, as commitment can be met by different rituals or task given by Mistress.

The Submissive Service Lifestyle

Submissive Service Lifestyle means performing the tasks given by The Mistress, this can be a ritual, activity. This is done to strengthen the commitment towards Mistress. Service can mean preparing meals, organizing the space, helping in daily tasks, buying gifts, expressing devotion.

The Role of Femdom

Femdom is short for female domination, where a woman takes a dominant role. The dominant partner establishes rule which submissive partner agrees to follow. The expectations and rules of the Locktober are well defined and discussed beforehand.

Rules, Goals and Check-Ins

The goal is to complete the 31 days Locktober Challenge. It can be for 31 days non stop or 20min a day. Take care of your hygiene, make sure you are not forcing but embracing the process, and communicate if there is any discomfort. Personal goals include exercising daily, a proper balanced diet, sleeping at regular intervals, being productive, wearing chastity device or following the rules, and performing the tasks assigned by Mistress. Daily check-ins include recording the daily progress, honestly reporting the experience, taking care of safety and hygiene, and informing the discomfort immediately. Participants should adapt the challenge as per their comfort, and if one wants to stop early then he can.

Safety, Consent and Boundaries

Consent is the foundation of a professional session. Before starting, the participant should discuss physical limits, emotional expectations and health conditions. If there is severe pain, difficulty urinating, swelling one should stop and seek medical help. Personal Boundaries include the decision to change their mind, and discontinue the challenge if they feel so.

Beginners and Myths

Beginners can participate in Locktober, and 31 days is not a requirement. It can be done without a partner, using personal goals and routines. People of any gender are open to participate. Chastity is just one method, and participation is completely optional. Locktober is about experiencing submission, while No Nut November is about self-control.

After Locktober

Individuals learn and reflect on what they have decided. Some people choose to continue the routines and practices beyond October, it is upto them. Participation must be a personal choice.