What do SSC, RACK and PRICK mean in professional BDSM? The modern consent frameworks ethical mistresses use.

In the world of BDSM, which people often think that it is just about submission and bondage, but that is just a short idea of it. BDSM involves a wide range of consensual activities, that includes submission, dominance, bondage, role-play. As BDSM is an intense practise, it involves physical, psychological and emotional risks. This is the reason different concepts have been developed that will enable us to think about consent, communication, responsibility and minimization of risk.

In this blog, I will make you familiar with the terms SSC, RACK, PRICK. They have some components in common. Understanding this helps you in establishing healthier boundaries.

SSC: Safe, Sane and Consensual

See, pleasure is like an energy that flows best when you are enjoying the process, this will get disturbed and you will be stressed instead of enjoying this beautiful process.

Here, Safe refers to the nature of activities performed. It should not hurt you in any manner be it physically or emotionally. Sane refers that the activities should be within the boundaries that we have discussed before the commencement of the Session. Consensual refers to the mutual agreement between us before we start the session. Safe emphasizes reducing unnecessary risks, taking precautions. Sane emphasizes responsible decision making, you should be capable of understanding what they are agreeing to.

In short, SSC is about creation of boundaries, so that you enjoy each and every step of the process. Without clear boundaries, BDSM mistress sessions will not give you ultimate satisfaction that you are seeking. Just like in Life, you need strong boundaries to shine. Don’t think that boundaries make it boring in fact boundaries help you enjoy better and get more satisfied.

RACK- Risk Aware and Consensual Kink

You should know what is kink before understanding this.

Kink means having a sensual interest that is different from simple penetration. Kink is a term you can give to all your wild fantasies and share them with me, without any fear. So that we both explore it together.  

Without Risk, there is no fun in life. Likewise, there is some risk involved in performing some BDSM activities. As you saw RACK- Risk Awareness and Consensual Kink, the activities that we are involved in you are aware of the risk. And you have agreed to participate in the activities. Before beginning the session, we discuss the boundaries, talk about the emotional responses that may be triggered. This approach emphasizes that consent has to be taken after informing the participant about it.

In short, you are aware of the risk and willingly agreeing to participate.

PRICK: Personal Responsibility Informed Consensual Kink

This is about making decisions based on the knowledge and awareness of the activities. It is your responsibility to make your own choices. You are understanding each and everything that we are about to perform in the session and you are agreeing to go ahead with it. Consent is important as without that you will not feel pleasure but aversion to it.

In short be completely aware, ask all the questions that you are having in your mind. I will provide all the answers for it.

The three concepts overlap each other, but they emphasize on different things.

1. SSC is about maintaining safety and be responsible in the activities being performed.
2. RACK is about emphasizing on awareness of the risk, as some risks cannot be completely eliminated. One should be aware of it and accept it willingly.
3. PRICK is about taking personal responsibility and taking decision based on the information of the session completely. One should not hesitate to ask any questions if they think they want to have more clarity about something.

Professional Mistress and Ethical Practices

A Professional Trans Mistress ensures clear boundaries, informed consent, safeword, aftercare, proper communication. This is important because BDSM is an intense activity and evokes powerful emotional responses memories, since this may also bring out your childhood memories. You should know that pleasure and satisfaction is also healing in nature that is why your old wounds come to the surface for healing and you feel light as you let them go. These experiences are subjective in nature and results vary from person to person.

Read more: Know How to Choose the Right Professional Mistress in Delhi – Questions to Ask Before Booking

An Ethical Mistress understands how application of ethics plays an important role in helping her slaves reach ultimate state of satisfaction.

Best practice is discussing the boundaries, limits before the starting of the session itself. As I always tell you being submissive simply means a different way of experiencing pleasure. It should not make you feel less about yourself. And due to that people, who have not met me yet, they have an assumption that will they be able to talk about their boundaries or they should talk. They are in confusion, but do not worry when you are in my world, you get all the freedom and we spend a good time and ensure that you have understood and given your consent to the activities we will be performing together.

Consent is an important part of the play

It ensures that you are enjoying the activities and completely uncomfortable with it. If you have given consent to something that does not automatically mean if you are uncomfortable during the session, you have complete right to do so and you should do that because BDSM principles says everyone derives pleasure in their own unique way and it should be ensured. People assume that methods are fixed and they should derive pleasure in that only but it is not true.

By interacting with a Mistress, you learn about BDSM and you understand the misconceptions related to it. You gave your consent once but during the session you feel uncomfortable with that practise you can withdraw your consent from that activity. This is an ethical practice and it ensures pleasure without any traumatic memory or experience.

So do not get swayed by the word BDSM, explore it and enjoy it. This is ensured only when you choose the right mistress for yourself.

– Mistress Pinaki